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UPW Limiting Belief #3

This is part 3 of 3 in a series of limiting beliefs that I worked through at Unleash the Power Within (UPW) with Tony Robbins. As mentioned before they are pretty personal however it is my wish that by sharing they can be of benefit to you, make you think, or at the least help me push past them and keep the momentum going by reaffirming my new empowering beliefs at the same time.

Old Limiting Belief:

“It isn’t important or damaging to me when I don’t correct people that assume or imply I am straight”

Negative consequences experienced because of this belief:

  • It limited me
  • I would accept the assumption
  • I would minimize and mute who I am
  • When in a relationship I missed out on sharing one of the most important people with the world (e.g. Staff functions where significant others are invited I would leave mine at home)
  • I didn’t display my true self so how could I attract what I am looking for in someone else
  • I would never find someone to accept me for who I am because I didn’t accept myself

New Empowering Belief:


Results so far:

Definitely one of the tougher limiting beliefs to conquer but so far so good. I have stepped up and presented myself to the world. In a few situations I have had the opportunity to explain that I am gay and it felt good. There have been other times since the conference that I held back but examined why I did and worked through the issue. This will definitely be a journey that I am looking forward to. :-)

3 comments to UPW Limiting Belief #3

  • Lesley

    YAH YOU! I’m so proud of you to be able to work through these revelations.. and in a public forum. We should all be so strong and brave when taking that look within…..

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    admin Reply:

    Thanks so much Lesley for your support! You are right, it was very hard for me to make the choice to push these into such a public place. I felt very strongly about them though so I took the leap! *HUGS*

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  • JoJo

    I’m really happy that you’ve decided to let everyone know. It doesn’t change who you are and we love you just as you are. I’m just sorry that you didn’t feel comfortable enough to say anything earlier but I can understand it. Talk to you soon and hope you’re having fun on your trip!

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